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“You’ve Got to be Selfish to be Selfless”

Selfishness is a horrible thing, but as Gary Vaynerchuk once said: “You’ve got to be selfish to be selfless”. If you can’t be happy with yourself, how can you be happy around others? Since my last post, I have been in a perpetual state of selfishness. I have been working hard on Logic BMX, building up the foundations of a new empire and working hard on improving my own physical image and appearance. This has allowed me to go out of my way for other people in the past week.

A New Image

A new image? Yes, I’ve gone for a new hairstyle, entrusting the local barber at Barber Town Barnards Green. I sat in the chair and said, do what you think is best, and he delivered. So if you see me, I’ll be sporting a number one and taped hair with the traditional Chris flick.

The empire is slowly coming to fruition, I’m slowly producing the website, I have two great articles ready to launch with a huge opinion piece and an interview with an established pro rider. I’m hoping to launch it by the end of the week. Camera wise, I’m still in the process of saving money for one.

My good friend George Taylor has offered to purchase his old camera back from the purchaser and kindly allow me to use it. This is one of the nicest gestures a friend has ever done and to top it all off I’m extremely excited to see him get back into filming. We had a fun little rivalry when we were younger.

Chris Wilmshurst - New Image

Health Changes

Health Wise, my diet has now slowed down and I’m eating more and more normal meals. I have even been out to dinner multiple times with my good friends Meg, George, and Dean. It’s been nice to check out some of the restaurants that Worcester has to offer since the opening of Cathedral plaza.

I can honestly see myself taking many people out for meals; however, I took Meg out to Yo Sushi to thank her for being a top friend over the past few months and I think next time I’ll put a cap on how much she can order. My bill came to £80 (with tip). However, it was a good experience. It was not the most amazing sushi I’ve ever had, but the staff were welcoming, the atmosphere was relaxed and freebies were being handed out most of the evening as it was a new restaurant.

Yo Sushi Worcester

I and George dined it up at Gourmet Burger Kitchen on Sunday after shopping for new clothing (once again, referring back to a new image and selfishness) and I tried Avocado for the first time. It was not on its own, but it was coupled with lamb and a burger in a tasty bun. I’d highly recommend it to anyone in Worcester, make the trip for that single burger alone.

Gourmet Burger Kitchen - Worcester

Selfish to be Selfless. A Good Deed

To return to my opening paragraph, selfishness has allowed me to give back. As I have focused on myself so much recently building up my confidence and mental game, I wanted to give back to someone in a big way and fate threw an old friend I haven’t seen for three years. Becky Winter is an aspiring and very good wedding photographer.

Recently Becky purchased a new WordPress theme and was stuck with how to install it and upgrade her website. After diagnosing that her web hosting was awful I had to intervene and help out. Her web hosting offered her very little storage and bandwidth to the point where she had exceeded both. The file permissions were all completely wrong and the server was painfully slow. It was at this point that I offered to host her using my own SSD VPS (Solid State Drive Virtual Private Server). I took care of migrating her entire website and setting it up.

Selfish to be Selfless - Becky Winter Photography

The task was of a mammoth proportion, the theme she had purchased came with an awfully complicated. I spent the majority of an evening figuring out how these plugins built pages from unhelpful documentation and videos provided.

Once I had built a structure for Becky, we sat down at her iMac as Dan played Zelda. We went through and audited each page for their strengths and weaknesses, tweaking them and adding bits here and there. I then went through the gallery system used to create these pages and explained and how each part worked. I then left the website in the capable hands of Becky who is now tweaking it to her final liking.



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